On relationships 3: A Phycological Counselling might help

You marry someone special after a long wait. After all those times you imagined how a responsible life partner I would become to special one and waited till the right time. You marry that special person and be amazed at how wonderful the other person is in their knowledge, intellect, even skills. But then you slowly start noticing the follies and shortcomings of the partner. Your partner is no longer the perfect one. Then start the arguments and heated disagreements on everyday decisions. There is topic that invariably invokes difference in you two and things go out of hand and sometimes irreparably violent. You start fearing that is this the end, the end of love and togetherness! You think consistently of making your own identity and attempt to boost the individualistic self. But doing so you feel empty and find the end result of the individuality as loniness and purposelessness.
During such times, when you can't think of any hope for a happy future, a counselling session with a professional psychologist might help you regain the ferver for life.
A counselling session where the counselor would just listen to your perceived problems and helps you realise that you are part of the problem too, not your partner alone. You realise Bura Jo dekhan main Chala.. mujhse bura na koy..
You realise how you too act as a demotivator to your partner and how you just don't see their problems.
And then when both have this understanding, you try to change. You keep the other person's happiness in mind while taking every decision. You support your partner. Your redeem your relationship.
I feel, counselling can help.